Getting hold of a shadchan is not always easy. Many shadchanim from
various neighborhoods have already agreed to take appointments
directly, and more are being added.
This page is open to boys as well as girls, and anyone can ask for an appointment: the single, a parent, a grandparent, a brother or sister, an aunt or uncle, or a friend.
Booking an appointment does not guarantee a date or a suggestion. What it does is make a shadchan easier to reach, whether you are not sure who to approach or you have been finding it hard to get hold of somebody.
Appointments become available one week in advance.
Meetings are held on Google Meet, with video, unless your confirmation email says otherwise.
Nothing is paid on this website. Once the appointment is confirmed you will be emailed the Zelle details for the shadchan you booked. The fee goes to the shadchan in full; Nivneh takes nothing from it.
All changes and cancellations can be made directly through the SimplyBook system, without contacting the shadchan. We kindly ask that any changes be made at least 24 hours in advance, allowing someone else the opportunity to benefit from that time slot. If you have already paid and cancel at least 24 hours in advance, please contact our office, and we will coordinate your refund with the shadchan. For cancellations within 24 hours, we appreciate your understanding that the shadchan has reserved this time specifically for you, and the appointment fee is therefore nonrefundable. Thank you for your understanding and consideration!
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Boca Raton
Mrs. Suri Blonder
Suri Blonder is originally from Kew Gardens Hills, Queens, but the last few years has mostly called Boca Raton, Florida home. She’s been involved in shidduchim for many years. What started with hosting singles for Shabbos meals, turned into full time involvement in helping bring couples together. Suri works with many shidduch organizations such as Adoptashadchan, YUconnects and the Rebbetzins Network. Suri also contributes to a weekly Shidduch advice column in the Monsey Mavaser. Suri works with singles from all walks of life; they could be modern orthodox, middle of the road, YU machmir, modern yeshivish, yeshivish and Chabad. Suri enjoys meeting people and uses her insight and experience to try to match them up. She makes herself available to be a listening ear and to give advice whenever it can be helpful. She is constantly meeting new people whether at events or by word of mouth. Her goal is to continue helping singles and their parents navigate this challenging journey.
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Brooklyn
Mrs. Chani Toiv
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Brooklyn
Mrs. Eta Eisenberger
For over 30 years, Eta Eisenberger has been dedicated to helping people navigate shidduchim, dating, relationships, and life. As a shadchan, Eta primarily works with singles ages 20–30, including those who are working, learning, or balancing both. She brings decades of experience, a deep understanding of the dating process, and an extensive network of connections to her work. Eta is known for her ability to truly listen. People turn to her for her listening ear, understanding, guidance, and ability to help them work through challenging situations. She is always up for a challenge and is willing to take on more difficult or complex cases. Her approach is about helping people be natural, authentic, and comfortable being themselves. She encourages clients to learn about themselves, understand what they are looking for, and learn to better understand the person they are dating. She helps them recognize where they are in their dating or relationship process and make thoughtful decisions about how to move forward. Beyond matchmaking, Eta has spent many years mentoring and advising people of all ages. She has developed trusted relationships and connections with rabbanim, kallah teachers, therapists, and other professionals, allowing her to connect people with the right resources and support when needed. With more than three decades of experience, Eta brings warmth, honesty, intuition, and practical life experience to every person she works with. Her goal is simple: to listen, understand, guide, and connect, helping each person find clarity and move forward with confidence.
Brooklyn
Mrs. Lisa Elefant
A passionate leader and creative thinker, Lisa Elefant is the heart and soul behind Adopt A Shadchan. She turned AAS from a fledgling organization in one community, to a worldwide movement that innovates several new, successful programs yearly. Lisa/Mrs. ) to stop her from creating Jewish homes around the world. After working in a Flatbush office for 30 years, Mrs. Elefant decided to focus all her energies on creating a worldwide network and platform for the singles and shadchanim in our communities. She’s famous for inspiring shadchanim, networking around the world, founding dozens of incredible events and AAS initiatives, and most importantly – advocating intensely for singles, and making them feel supported, valued, and heard. Fun, authentic, and with an uncanny ability to connect and spread warmth, Mrs. Elefant loves seeing what makes people tick and bringing out the latent strengths in those around her. With her wide variety of initiatives that appeal to every spectrum of society, Mrs. Elefant is passionate about teaming up together to accomplish more – without limits.
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Brooklyn
Ms. Rivki Lang
Rivki Lang of Brooklyn has a knack for bringing people together. Through her involvement in kiruv, party planning, and her many connections throughout the community, Rivki is constantly meeting new people and getting to know them in different settings. Rivki has made many shidduchim, primarily with young, yeshivish singles, particularly boys who are learning. For Rivki, shidduchim are about more than finding two names that look good on paper. She takes the time to get a real sense of who someone is, what they are looking for, and what kind of life they envision for themselves. She is not afraid to think outside the box and explore a possibility when she sees a connection that may have potential and making that introduction.
Brooklyn
Mrs. Ruchie Giberstein
Ruchie Giberstein is a dedicated full-time shadchan with over 25 years of experience helping singles find their bashert. She was a cofounder of Adopt A Shadchan and was previously affiliated with Binyan Adei Ad. Ruchie primarily works with singles in their early to mid-20s, representing a broad range of mainstream, Torah-oriented backgrounds and hashkafos, from those pursuing professional careers while maintaining a strong commitment to Torah values to those planning to spend several years learning in kollel. She works with singles throughout the Tri-State area as well as out-of-town communities, helping create meaningful shidduch opportunities across geographic boundaries.
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Brooklyn
Mrs. Tzipporah Kranz
Although Tzipporah Kranz entered the world of shadchanim just a few years ago, she has already become actively involved in meeting singles and bringing people together. Baruch Hashem, she has been fortunate to experience much siyata d’Shmaya in her efforts and is passionate about continuing to help singles find their bashert. Tzipporah primarily works with singles ages 20–28 from the Tri-State area, including both those who are learning and those who are working. She is dedicated to making meaningful connections and approaching each potential shidduch with thoughtfulness, care, and a genuine desire to help.
Chicago
Mrs. Freyda Leah Falik
Freyda Leah Falik has been a dedicated shadchan for over 20 years, bringing warmth, relatability, and a strong desire for helping people find their bashert. Based in Chicago, she works primarily with singles in the yeshiva world, and Torah-focused working singles ranging from their early 20s through their mid-30s. Freyda Leah has also developed a far-reaching network of shadchanim through her many years in the field. ” She has given interactive workshops on the “101 of Shidduchim” to both parents and singles, offering practical guidance, tools, and insight into the shidduch process. In addition to her work as a shadchan, Freyda Leah has coached many singles, teaching them the power of vulnerability and helping them embrace authenticity, move past fear, and develop the confidence that is essential to finding their zivug. At the heart of all her work is a deep sense of emunah and an understanding that a Shadchan’s job is to be shaliach of Hashem.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Alisa Berger
Alisa Berger is an experienced shadchan and dating coach in the Five Towns. She also serves on the Board of Directors of The Shidduch Lounge and is a part of the managing committee, playing an instrumental role in its expansion. She works with a wide range of singles from different backgrounds, primarily those in their 20s and 30s, including those who are currently learning and those pursuing professional careers, and the girls looking for this type. Passionate about bringing people together, Alisa invests time in understanding both singles and their families, allowing her to make well-informed introductions that reflect shared values, personalities, and long-term compatibility. Drawing on her experience as a dating coach, Alisa helps singles navigate the dating process with greater confidence and clarity while remaining focused on the ultimate goal of building lasting Torah homes. Her dedication, compassion, and personalized approach have made her a trusted resource for singles and their families throughout their shidduch journey.
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Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Bukie Cohen
Bukie Cohen is a dedicated and experienced shadchan who has been helping singles find their bashert for over 30 years. Known for her thoughtfulness, integrity, and genuine care for each individual, Bukie brings a wealth of wisdom, warmth, and steady guidance to the shidduch process. While her primary focus is on younger singles, she enjoys working with individuals of all ages and backgrounds, both in-town and out-of-town. Bukie is also actively involved with Shidduch Lounge, where she continues to help create meaningful shidduch opportunities. With decades of experience and a sincere commitment to helping others, Bukie approaches every shidduch with sensitivity, understanding, and a heartfelt desire to help singles build their future homes.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Chani Scharf
Chani Scharf is a certified Life Coach, ADHD Coach, and Shadchan based in Lawrence, with nearly 30 years of experience in the helping profession. She brings warmth, compassion, and practical insight to shidduchim, drawing on her coaching background to understand each person’s unique personality, strengths, and needs. Chani also supports women navigating ADHD and executive functioning challenges. She helps them develop practical tools and everyday skills to feel less overwhelmed, manage daily responsibilities with greater efficiency, and build the confidence and independence to approach shidduchim feeling more prepared and empowered. With a thoughtful, individualized approach, Chani strives to make the shidduch process more personal, positive, and purposeful, helping each person feel understood and supported along the way.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Danielle Aronovitz
Danielle Aronovitz is a speech language pathologist and an accomplished shadchan (Jewish matchmaker) who balances both professions from her home in Woodmere, New York. As a professional who "wears two hats daily," she seamlessly applies her communication expertise to her matchmaking philosophy. Her core guidance for each dater centers on three foundational rules for navigating the modern dating scene: 1. Maintain Ultimate Privacy ("Dating HIPAA") 2. Enter Every Date with an Optimistic Mindset 3. Embrace Realism and Personal Honesty Danielle is a person with a big heart, patient, level-headed, and intuitive who believes in daters thinking things through on their own, while lending an ear and/or advice if asked. (You will hear the following tidbits from her: -you need to be in it to win it, and ) If you check her WhatsApp status, you will often find dating advice and helpful dating tidbits. She has successfully matched all different types of Jewish daters from the USA and around the world. Danielle believes matchmaking is the Jewish community’s responsibility, and if one can’t get the match off the ground, ask someone for help. ”
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Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Rebbetzin Michal Stein
Rebbetzin Michal Stein is a beloved shadchan who is passionate about helping singles build beautiful, Torah-centered homes rooted in Yiras Shamayim and strong Torah values. For the past 10 years, Rebbetzin Stein has devoted herself to guiding and supporting yeshiva bochurim and young single women who have transitioned from Modern Orthodox backgrounds and are seeking to build their futures within the Yeshiva Torah world. Serving as a trusted mentor and mother figure, Rebbetzin Stein provides a warm, understanding, and encouraging environment where singles feel comfortable seeking guidance and direction. She helps them navigate the shidduch process with confidence and optimism, offering personalized support rooted in genuine empathy, deep understanding, and strong Torah hashkafos. With her nurturing approach and heartfelt dedication to each individual, Rebbetzin Stein’s greatest aspiration is to help every single find their bashert and build a beautiful bayis ne’eman b’Yisrael.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Rachel Tepfer
Rachel Tepfer of Cedarhurst has been involved in shidduchim for over 35 years, bringing warmth, sensitivity, and a genuine desire to help each person find the right match. With a background in education, Rachel has a natural ability to understand people, connect with them, and recognize the qualities that make each individual unique. Over the years, she has worked with a wide range of singles, from long-time learners to those who are kove’a itim, and enjoys helping each person navigate the dating process in a thoughtful and positive way. In addition to her extensive experience as a shadchan, Rachel is a dating coach, offering guidance and support to singles as they work toward building a healthy and meaningful relationship. Her sweet, warm, and approachable personality allows people to feel comfortable opening up. Rachel Rachel’s decades of experience, combined with her caring nature and strong understanding of people, make her a trusted resource for singles and families throughout the shidduch process.
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Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Rivky Bajnon
Rivky Bajnon is a warm, caring, and highly successful shadchan who is deeply invested in helping singles build lasting Torah homes. As an official shadchan for TAG and TMM in Far Rockaway, she has earned a reputation for her thoughtful approach, genuine care, and many successful matches. In addition to her work in shidduchim, Rivky is a dedicated second-grade teacher at TAG, where her patience, warmth, and ability to connect with others shine through every day. Rivky primarily works with younger singles, ranging from those in the yeshiva learning world to Torah-focused working professionals. She is known for taking the time to truly understand each individual’s personality, goals, and values, helping create meaningful and lasting matches with warmth, sensitivity, and professionalism.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Sharon Weissman
Sharon Weissman is a respected shadchan and dating coach who is deeply committed to helping singles navigate the dating process and build lasting Jewish homes. With a warm and approachable personality, she takes the time to truly get to know each person, offering guidance that is thoughtful, sincere, and rooted in Torah values. Sharon believes that every single deserves genuine attention, honest guidance, and someone who is invested in their journey. For over 30 years, Sharon has been actively involved in the shidduch world, helping countless singles move forward with clarity, confidence, and emunah. Today, she dedicates herself full-time to shidduchim and dating coaching. She recently joined the Kesher Initiative while continuing her important work as a caseworker for the Shalom Task Force. Sharon works primarily with singles from the yeshiva learning world, including those committed to long-term learning and those who are kove’a itim. She understands the values, aspirations, and lifestyle of the Torah community and brings that understanding into her work with each individual. Her approach is personal and attentive, taking into account each single’s unique circumstances, goals, and vision for building a Torah home. With decades of experience, a genuine passion for helping others, and a deep sense of responsibility, Sharon is dedicated to making a meaningful difference in the lives of the singles she works with.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Shevy Moser
Shevy Moser is a licensed clinical social worker and experienced therapist who brings years of professional experience, warmth, and a deep understanding of people to her work as a shadchan. Her friendly, approachable personality and genuine love for helping others allow her to connect easily with singles and make them feel comfortable, understood, and heard. Coming from a Bais Yaakov background while also being actively involved with singles from YU and a broad range of hashkafos, Shevy enjoys working with individuals from diverse backgrounds and at all stages of life. She works with both younger and older singles and recognizes that every person and every shidduch is unique. Shevy takes the time to truly understand each single, their personality, values, and aspirations, as well as what they are looking for in a future spouse. Rather than limiting herself to one particular type, she approaches each potential match with an open mind, sensitivity, and thoughtful consideration. Shevy is actively involved with Adopt A Shadchan and Shidduch Lounge. Her warm nature, ability to connect with people, and sincere dedication to helping singles make her a valued resource in the shidduch world.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Suri Kahn
Suri Kahn, a resident of the Five Towns, is an active and dedicated shadchan involved with YU Connects, Shidduch Lounge, and Five Towns Peer to Pair. Suri is passionate about providing a personalized, thoughtful approach to shidduchim, creating a comfortable, welcoming, and judgment-free environment where singles feel genuinely heard and understood. She places great emphasis on building meaningful relationships with the individuals she works with, developing trust and rapport that allow singles to feel comfortable opening up and sharing their thoughts, priorities, and aspirations. Drawing on her intuition, keen understanding of people, and thoughtful screening process, Suri strives to make meaningful connections based on shared core values, compatible lifestyles, and long-term goals. She believes that successful matchmaking begins with truly understanding each individual and takes a respectful, pressure-free approach, allowing singles to explore opportunities at their own pace. Suri works with singles of all ages, primarily between 20 and 40, across a broad hashkafic spectrum, ranging from Modern Orthodox to Yeshivish. Her goal is to make the shidduch process a positive, supportive, and personalized experience for everyone she works with.
Far Rockaway / Five Towns
Mrs. Yaffa Jungreis
Yaffa Jungreis is a respected shadchan and longtime educator who has dedicated years to guiding and mentoring young women. As a teacher at TAG (Torah Academy for Girls), she is known for her warmth, insight, and ability to build lasting relationships, often remaining a trusted resource for her students long after they leave her classroom. Yaffa works with a broad range of Torah-focused, yeshiva-minded individuals, from those in more yeshivish circles to working young professionals. She takes the time to understand each person’s values, personality, and aspirations, approaching every shidduch with care, thoughtfulness, and genuine commitment. In addition to the shidduchim she works on independently, Yaffa regularly collaborates with other experienced shadchanim, expanding opportunities and helping more singles find their bashert through shared insight and networking.
Lakewood
Rabbi Eli Hartman
Eli Hartman is a well-known shadchan based in the Lakewood area with years of experience helping singles build meaningful relationships. In addition to his independent shadchanus, he works together with other shadchanim to create more opportunities for singles. He also regularly coordinates successful shidduch events. Eli primarily works with older singles, generally ages 26 and up, from the yeshiva world and those with a yeshiva-minded outlook. He is known for his energy, responsiveness, and personalized approach. Whenever possible, Eli prefers to meet singles in person to gain a deeper understanding of who they are, while also offering virtual meetings for added convenience.
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Lakewood
Mrs. Goldie Zabrowsky
For over fifteen years, Goldie Zabrowsky has been helping singles find their bashert. She began her shidduch work in Monsey, where many still know her, and is now based in Jackson, New Jersey. Goldie works mainly with yeshivish singles, both boys learning full time and frum working singles, from their early twenties up to their mid-thirties. She works independently and with several shidduch organizations, and brings warmth and real care to every single she meets.
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Lakewood
Mrs. Goldy Portowicz
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Lakewood
Mrs. Toby Eisikovic
Toby Eisikovic has always had a passion for understanding people and helping them feel truly heard. As a speech therapist, shadchan, and dating coach, she brings together her background in language and communication with her love for helping singles navigate shidduchim. Toby works mainly with boys and girls in their lower and upper 20s in the learning community, offering a listening ear, practical guidance, and a comfortable place to talk things through. Her goal isn’t just to help someone find the right person, it’s to help them develop the communication and relationship skills that will iy”H carry them into a strong, happy, and lasting marriage.
Miami
Mrs. Margalit Saka
Margalit Saka is an experienced shadchan and life coach, based in Miami, where she and her husband, Joseph L. Saka, raised their family and are always involved in communal affairs. She has helped facilitate numerous successful shidduchim and is known for her thoughtful approach, warmth, and genuine care for every individual. Margalit is passionate about guiding singles through every stage of the shidduch process. Margalit has a wide range of network worldwide since she grew up in Belgium and has family in many different countries. In addition to making shidduchim, Margalit is available to give insight and practical suggestions to help singles navigate the shidduch process with greater clarity and confidence. Margalit takes the time to truly understand each person she works with, striving to make meaningful matches while providing encouragement, practical guidance, and personalized support throughout the journey toward finding their bashert.
Monsey
Mrs. Elisheva Fishman
Elisheva Fishman is a warm, personable, and family-oriented shadchan who truly enjoys meeting people, building connections, and helping singles find their bashert. She is actively involved in making shidduchim, constantly working on suggestions and bringing people together. Elisheva works with singles from backgrounds ranging from learning to working, with a particular niche in short-term learners and a strong emphasis on family values and a Torah-oriented lifestyle. With a degree in marketing and a natural ability to connect with people, she brings enthusiasm, creativity, and determination to her work as a shadchan. She believes in encouraging singles to be open-minded and is not afraid to give a gentle push when she feels a potential match is worth exploring. Her approachable personality, genuine interest in people, and proactive approach make her a valuable resource for singles navigating the shidduch process
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Monsey
Mrs. Gitty Ornstein
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Passaic
Mrs. Rivky Schwab
Rivky Schwab is a dedicated New Jersey Realtor serving the Passaic and Clifton communities, where she is known not only for her professionalism in real estate but also for her deep commitment to helping others. Actively involved in community affairs, Rivky is passionate about making a positive impact both professionally and personally. Beyond real estate, Rivky is a highly respected and experienced *shadchan*, having helped facilitate numerous successful shidduchim. She is known for her thoughtful approach, warmth, genuine care, and unwavering dedication to every individual she works with. Her primary focus is on Bais Yaakov-minded singles, primarily in their 20s, and she works with a broad spectrum ranging from long-term yeshivish to solid frum working individuals. Rivky takes the time to truly understand each person, striving to create meaningful and lasting zivugim while providing encouragement, practical guidance, and personalized support throughout the journey toward finding their bashert. In addition to making shidduchim, she offers thoughtful insight by reviewing feedback from references or previous dates and providing practical suggestions to help singles navigate the shidduch process with greater clarity and confidence. Whether helping families find the perfect home or helping singles find their life partner, Rivky is driven by a genuine passion for serving her community with integrity, compassion, and care.
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Queens
Mrs. Basya Bruckstein
Mrs. Basya Bruckstein has been involved with shidduchim for over ten years first as a neighborhood volunteer for Nasi and then as a shadchan on various shidduchim platforms. She has organized many meet the shadchan and speed dating events and enjoys getting to know the people she works with. Mrs. Bruckstein currently works as an administrator for Adoptashadchan on their database team and is also an active shadchan on the database. She works with all ages but primarily with 20-35 year olds. Mrs. Basya Bruckstein works with many different hashkafahs and backgrounds including yeshivish, baalabattish, strictly frum/not yeshivish, modern orthodox/machmir, YU educated, yekkish and heimish. She is open to all types and plans (and those looking for them) including full time learners, full time working or in school or half day each; koveah itim and other types as well. While Mrs. Bruckstein deals mostly with people who were not previously married, she has also made second time around shidduchim. Mrs. Bruckstein is kind and sensitive and truly wants to help everyone in whatever capacity she can. She often helps guide and advise daters who reach out to her. Mrs. Bruckstein has been zoche to make a number of shidduchim over the years and hopes with Hashem’s help to be able to make many more BE”H.
Queens
Mrs. Hindy Laster
Hindy Laster is a dedicated shadchan from Queens, New York, with more than 15 years of experience helping Jewish singles find meaningful connections. She is also a special educator who has worked with children and their families. Her background in coaching helps her support singles with care and understanding. Kind and compassionate, Hindy gives generously of herself to the singles she works with. A mother and grandmother, she understands the importance of family and the joy of building lasting relationships. Known as the “Queens Shadchan,” she is committed to helping singles find meaningful connections. Hindy believes shidduchim are a community effort. Through her matchmaking work and database she helps bring people together and make the process feel more personal and hopeful.
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Queens
Mrs. Reena Kirschenbaum
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Toronto
Mrs. Sara Bitterman
Sara Bitterman is an experienced shadchan, dating coach, and kallah teacher based in Toronto, where she and her husband, Rav Avrohom Bitterman, serve as the Rav and Rebbetzin of Ateres Mordechai. She has helped facilitate numerous successful shidduchim and is known for her thoughtful approach, warmth, and genuine care for every individual. Sara is passionate about guiding singles through every stage of the shidduch process. Her primary focus is on Bais Yaakov-minded singles, primarily in their 20s, and she works with a broad spectrum ranging from long-term yeshivish to solid frum working individuals. In addition to making shidduchim, Sara is available to review feedback from references or previous dates and offer thoughtful insight and practical suggestions to help singles navigate the shidduch process with greater clarity and confidence. Sara takes the time to truly understand each person she works with, striving to make meaningful matches while providing encouragement, practical guidance, and personalized support throughout the journey toward finding their bashert. ** Toronto girls: To meet with Mrs. Sara Bitterman, please reach out to her through TSI.
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